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Lies
- by Roger Fides
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As featured in the soon to be released book by Roger
Fides
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“Sometimes it is easier to see clearly into the liar
than into the man who tells the truth. Truth, like light,
blinds. Falsehood on the contrary, is a beautiful twilight
that enhances every object”
As the victims, the perpetrators,
or the witnesses we all know lies
and almost everyone, honest enough, would admit to lying
at some point. It would, however be far more accurate to
state that we all have lied
and we continue to lie everyday
of our lives. A
number of recent studies by psychologists have concluded
that on average we lie 200
times a day. It is reasonable to conclude from this
that in our daily encounters with other people we are also
lied to continuously. Yet almost
everyone
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lies, regardless of the hypocrisy
of this. The greatest difficulty in any discussion of lies
or lying is how to define what constitutes as a lie.
The most objective definition would be to conclude that to
tell a lie is to intentionally
warp, conceal or present something else as the truth, however
this definition does not take into account the elusive nature
of truth. While it maybe straightforward enough to say whether
something is true or false, it is not as simple to distinguish
between truth and lies. What
is ‘true’ resides in reality and by definition is fixed and
self evident, while ‘truth’ resides in knowledge and belief,
and is not as clear-cut. Philosophy, religion, art and science
have struggled throughout history to provide us with ‘truth’
and still they continue to present us with new theories, answers
and solutions. Plato saw truth as a fixed universal independent
from individuals. The Nihilist would have us believe
that truth does not exist. The Relativist would have us believe
that the problem is that the truth for one person will not
necessarily be true for another and it often seems that in
this Post-modern world, that this, paradoxically, is the generally
accepted truth of the masses. We each choose our own truth;
it follows therefore lying is a similar subjective concept.
We are left to pick and choose our beliefs
and theories to inform our perplexed consciences for guidance.
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The Bible presents us
with ‘the first lie’ in Genesis,
when the devil tempts Eve with false promises to eat the forbidden
fruit in the Garden of Eden. Throughout the Bible the condemnation
for lying or “Bearing false witness,” is great, in Revelations,
liars we are told will “have their part in the lake that burns
with fire and brimstone.” It is not only western Religion
that teaches that lying is wrong, for instance abstention
from lying is one of the precepts of the Buddhist faith. This
might help explain the universal negative connotations that
lies have always had. ‘Lying
is wrong’, its one thing, apparently we all should agree on.
But why are they wrong when we know that lying does not always
cause injury or hurt. Many lies
are told to protect ourselves from being hurt and then of
course there are those times when we avoid hurting someone
else’s feelings by lying. For this reason lying has commonly
been divided into white and black lies,
meaning, respectively, playful, harmless or considerate lies
and malicious or hurtful lies
but because of the inescapable subjectivity involved in lying
or being lied to neither of these
divisions can be see as concrete. This adds to the complexity
of any moralistic exploration of lies
and may help explain the diversity of moral teachings, which
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“The Sin of Lying” is one of the
most damnable and common sins of the human race.” These
are the words of Elder B. E. Echols, from a Christian Booklet
written by him, which was published in 1946, and it is similar
to the opinion of many staunch Christian writers. Echols
booklet is interesting in that it describes 65 different
types of lies in detail and
each one, from the smallest to the biggest, he adamantly
affirms is categorically immoral and must be avoided lest
we be damned to hell. Even what he describes as “polite
and mannerly lies” he tells
us “will land one just as deeply in hell as any other lie
that was ever told.” The writings of Saint Augustine and
Thomas Aquinas, which possibly provided some inspiration
for Echols, both saw all forms of lying as sins. Saint Augustine
similarly divided lies into
categories, nine in total, however took a lighter view to
Aquinas, in that he recognised that fundamental to notions
of the morality of a lie is
intention. This concession is one, which Thomas Aquinas
completely negated. Augustine suggested that a lie
told with or for some good intention is not as immoral as
one told to hurt. As he put it himself, “It seems certain
that every lie is a sin, though
it makes a great difference with what intention and on what
subject one lies. For the sin
of the man who tells a lie
to help another is not so heinous as that of the man who
tells a lie to injure another.”
The greatest most damnable type of lie
according to Augustine is one on the subject of religion.
While the two types of lie,
which he states, “are no great crime but not exactly free
from sin” are those “spoken in jest” and those that “render
some service.”
Although, writing from a philosophical
standpoint, the philosopher Immanual Kant had a very grave
view of lies and lying. He
stated that “the greatest violation of a human being’s duty
to himself regarded merely as a moral being (the humanity
in his own person) is the contrary of truthfulness, lying….by
a lie a human being throws
away and, as it were, annihilates his dignity as a human
being.” He felt that even lies
which were told with good intention were a crimes against
the liar’s own person. Recent thought, on lies
and their place within humanity, is less condemning. David
Nyberg a professor of philosophy, Volker Sommer an anthropologist
and Peter Stiegnitz a social psychologists to name but a
few all tell us that lies are
necessary for society to function and not all lies
are necessarily immoral. Michael Lewis the author of “Lying
and Deception in Everyday Life” provides us with one of
the simplest most coherent categorisations for different
types of lying and lies. His
four categories are 1. Lying to protect others’ feelings,
2. Lies to protect oneself,
3. Self-deception, and 4. Lies
to hurt others. He suggests that it is only this last type
of lie, which one could undoubtedly
say is always immoral.
Most would agree that
the first type of lie, from
Lewis’ list, is the least harmful of all lies.
It is mainly this type of lying, which sociologists and
psychologists are referring to when they tell us that lying
is necessary for society to function properly. These are
the ‘White Lies’
that help maintain relationships and friendships. Mark Twain
wrote of this type of lying when he said, “I think that
all this courteous lying is a sweet and loving art, and
should be cultivated. The highest perfection of politeness
is only a beautiful edifice, built from the base to the
dome, of graceful gilded forms of charitable and unselfish
lying.” Etiquette, politeness and flattery are the foundations
social interaction and each of these counsels against expressing
the brutal honest truth when the truth might hurt or insult.

The film “Liar, Liar” utilises the social
necessity of these lies for
comic effect, by having the main character, played by Jim
Carey, unable to tell even the smallest lie
for twenty-four hours. The result is a complete breakdown
of his ability to interact socially, professionally and
on any personal level. While the moral intention of this
film, if indeed it had one, could be seen to have attempted
to demonstrate the ills of lying, what it inadvertently
showed was that lying is so ingrained in all our relationships
that without it calamity would ensue. Women, we are told
by some studies, lie more than
men, because they, apparently, are more prone to telling
these polite little white lies
however this may be affirmation of simplistic stereotypes.
Suffice it to say that for both sexes there is almost an
unspoken obligation to veil the truth with lies
in order to avoid agitating social and personal relations.
“Lying to protect yourself
is the most common sort of lie,
psychologists agree.”
The snake has historically been associated
with lies, due to its Biblical
significance: the serpent as Satan, “The Father of Lies”.
Many writers and psychologists suggest that lying could
be more universally associated with traits found in common
to all animals. That the animalistic instincts to deceive,
either to protect itself from prey or as an artifice of
attack, are not all that dissimilar from the way in which
humans lie to protect themselves.
These are instincts of survival, but of course humans have
evolved to a point where survival has become a far more
complex issue than it is for animals. Therefore the faculties
for deception in humans have also evolved, the development
and evolution of language being the most obvious of these.
“Of course, abstract thought and language- facilitating
the capacity to communicate about things not immediately
present- also opens up large possibilities for lying.” Nietzsche
recognised the instinctual nature of lying, however felt
that human beings have brought it to a new levels, due to
the fact that survival is not a simple response to position
on the food chain. “As a means for the preserving of the
individual, the intellect unfolds its principle powers in
dissimulation, which is the means by which weaker, less
robust individuals preserve themselves - since they have
been denied the chance to wage the battle for existence
with horns or with the sharp teeth of beasts of prey. This
art of dissimulation reaches its peak in man.”
Self-deception
is a far more complex form of lying. Kant saw this
type of lie a perplexing contradiction.
The paradox of self-deception is that to lie,
one must know that what one says is not the truth, but once
someone deceives them self, by definition it ceases to be
a lie. Psychologists tell us
however that we are all prone to it. In some cases, however
self-deception can be taken too far, resulting in a compulsive
or pathological form of lying. Psychologists generally explain
this as being the result of self-esteem problems. Pathological
self-deception is used compulsively by an individual to
enrich their life and embellish on their experiences. Lying
becomes so much part of the character that for these liars,
often the actual act of lying, and of course getting away
with it, becomes more important than the subject of the
lie itself. In extreme cases
what is known as “Pseudologia Fantastica” can develop, which
is defined as a “matrix of fact and fiction.” This is generally
seen as a form of repression, the painful and difficult
facts of reality are hidden by daydream like fantasy that
become real and true in the mind of the sufferer. The psychoanalyst
Otto Fenichel referring to this phenomena proposed that
“if it is possible to make someone believe
that untrue things are true, then it is possible that true
things, the memory of which threatens me are untrue.” Many
psychologists argue that a certain amount of Self-deception
is both necessary and healthy. It can provide a sense of
wellbeing and contentment or can help us overcome our fears
and achieve things, which present great difficulty by providing
a false sense of confidence. We lie
to ourselves about our performance or importance in workplace,
our health, our weight, our appearance, our habits or addictions,
our spirituality, our use of money and the list goes on
and on. No one seems fully aware of how much we deceive
ourselves, which may be because these lies
only become issues when we are forced to face the truth.
For example deceptions concerning our health can and are
often exposed by a subsequent illness. Many of these deceptions
feed into our relationships with others and, “often, we
unconsciously use deceit in our daily interpersonal interactions
to reinforce our own self-deceptions.”
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Some of the first lies
we come across in life come from our parents, with Santa
Clause, the tooth fairy, the boogie-man, explanations
of where babies come from and other childhood ruses. The intention
is of course not malicious, “What does a child need before
sleep, reality or comfort?” These lies
feed children’s imaginations, ward off fears, teach and generally
enrich childhood but could the revelations of the truth behind
these lies have lasting wounding
effects. Possibly damaging our trust, making us more suspicious
of voices of authority, which could possibly be defended as
have a beneficial effect, by inadvertently preparing children
for the grown-up world where too much trust can be a weakness.
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Children themselves can of course be very creative liars
inventing wild stories to excuse their behaviour or in response
to their imagination. If not done compulsively these childish
lies are often harmless and
seem quite healthy. The stories of Pinocchio and “The Boy
who cried wolf”, with their themes exploring of the consequences
of lying, attempt to teach children the ills of dissimulation
and prevarication but it is difficult to ascertain their
effectiveness. The onus falls back on parents and teachers
to inform a child’s mind and conscience; providing adequate
distinctions between right and wrong, good and evil, truth
and lies. It must be remembered
however, that children learn best from example and many
of the values that we attempt to pass on to them, we hypocritically
do not practice before them. It may be no wonder that many
end up with mixed up values and confused distinctions between
truth and lies.
In this contemporary world there
is an added hindrance, to forming coherent values, in the
form of the mass media. We are lied
to constantly by the mass media, most obviously by advertising,
which presents unattainable dreams of better lives, if only
we drink that soft drink, eat that food, wear those clothes
or drive that car. As advertising evolved throughout the
20th Century it continually improved in its ability
to persuade and affect the masses. It has become more subtle
and complex, its greatest artifice is to play on our instinctual
and unconscious desires, which explains why sex is used
to sell so many things. As much as we may be aware of all
the devices they use and as much as we can study the semiotics
of advertising it is difficult to be immune to it and almost
impossible to avoid exposure to it. More and more individual
identity is being formed by consumption, which is being
controlled, or at the very least being influenced, by mass-media
advertising. One photographic stylist describing his craft
said: “I create the image that people want to see. It’s
up to me to fake people out….to, in a sense…Basically you
lie to people. You create…You
create a picture and then they adapt to that picture.” Jean
Baudrillard argues that it is too simplistic to say that
advertising deceives, rather, he hypothesises that, it is
“beyond the true and the false”, it is a “prophetic language”
in that it promotes hope, creates myths and within it “truth
is ‘artificially synthesized.’”

Baudrillard also saw
journalism as being in the business of creating myths and
synthesising truth;
“Journalists and advertisers are mythic operators: they
present the object or the event as drama, as fiction.” Journalism
is the main element of the mass media which we actually
place trust in. It is our source of information about what
is going on in the world around us: the newspapers, television
news programs and more recently Internet news reports. Depending
on the reputation of the producer we tend to trust some
more than others, however it is practically impossible to
find a completely objective source of news coverage. Either
tainted by some political agenda or commercial motivation
the news we receive cannot be trusted wholeheartedly. The
facts may be there in full but the slant, the presentation,
is rarely ever objective. It is an intentional manipulation
of truth, which one could easily go as far as to call a
lie. In the most extreme cases reports can be complete fabrications.
The possible explanation for this is that the fierce competition
between different news sources demands shocking and eye-catching
headlines, which very often are not possible with true reflections
of the reality. There is, quite understandably, much fear
and suspicion concerning the power of the mass media: that
what it presents are carefully orchestrated lies
and regulated truths to control the masses. Naom Chomsky
said that the purpose of the media is “to turn people into
submissive, automized individuals who don’t interfere with
the structures of power but rather serve those structures.”
Progressively, over
the last two centuries in the western world, religion has
been loosing its influence over the masses. Once it provided
complete moral guidance and absolute notions of ‘truth’.
Of course it still does this for many people, but while
it is difficult to say if they are in the minority now,
it is possible to say that religion does not have the power
it once had. In the nineteenth century it seemed that the
avant-garde artist might act as a guiding force, “or art
itself become a substitute for religious experience.” Now
the mass media could easily be seen as having replaced religion;
providing us with a new value system; preaching to us from
the sacred texts of newspapers and fashion magazines, and
from the pulpit of the TV screen. Its ubiquity is phenomenal
and it would seem that its power to influence is growing
exponentially. The question could be asked whether the mass
media has helped foster a less honest world, not only by
frequently deceiving the masses, but in doing so influencing
our relationships with others, promoting the attitude that
lying to attain ones goals is not only acceptable but also
the norm. “Everyone ‘solicits’ and manipulates, everyone
is solicited and manipulated. This is the foundation of
the new morality.”
“On one hand, the
Gulf War showed how politicians have reason to fear the
media; or, rather, have reason to fear public reaction to
what the media may show…. On the other hand, the Gulf War
showed… that a scenario of lies
can be written for the media which will then transmit it,
with excitement, commentary, analysis etc., as if it was
truth.” Nicholo Machiavelli advocated that to achieve and
hold power a leader must not be afraid to deceive. “But
it is necessary to know how to disguise this nature well
and to be a great hypocrite and a liar: and men are so simple-minded
and so controlled by their present needs that one who deceives
will always find another who will allow himself to be deceived.”
While this may seem to be advice for dictators and totalitarian
leaders, the politicians and government in democratic countries
are also susceptible to dishonesty action. Many of them
striving for personal gain over and above their role of
working for the common-good and others using tactics of
manipulation to influence public opinion in favour of their
policies. They lie, we know
they lie, we joke about it:
“show me an honest
politician…” we not only accept it but we have come
to expect it. It is a cliché, which is explained by another
cliché: that power corrupts. More and more it seems the
reputations of our past leaders and politicians are being
questioned and inevitable being tarnished with revelations
of dishonest and dishonourable conduct while in office.
Conspiracy Theorists would have us believe
that there are bigger and greater lies
still to be revealed both about our past and present politicians.
They purport that even in the ‘civilised’ and ‘democratic’
First World we are constantly being fed on a diet of elaborate
propaganda and that there is very little that we should
trust. According to them we live in an age not so dissimilar
from Orwellian prophesy; in which the ‘Newspeak’ of Orwell’s
Nineteen Eighty-Four is not so far removed from the
rhetoric that we hear from our very own politicians.
“ ‘Who controls the past,’ ran the Party
slogan, ‘controls the future: who controls the present controls
the past.’ …..‘Reality control’, they called it: in Newspeak,
‘doublethink’.”
Orwell’s Nineteen
Eighty-Four described a fictional example of an extreme
control of history but many would say that our own history
books contain some of the greatest lies
ever told. History is intended to be an objective account
of events from the past, but very often, as with journalism,
there is a suspicion that what is presented as objective,
is in reality only one side of the story.
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For instance had either of the two World Wars had a different
outcome; had the other side won, the history, of the conflict
and the motivation behind the war would possibly be different.
“History is written
by victors. In social terms, the victors are the elites
who build the monuments, control the organs of record, compile
the archives and hold the chroniclers, annalists and journalists
in the palm of their patronage.” In recent times, a new threat
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Movies and novels more and more are turning to history
for inspiration, and both fictional and non-fictional accounts
of historical events are being presented for entertainment.
The problem with the non-fictional accounts is that sometimes
the truth has to be rewritten to make it more entertaining.
Of course the fictional accounts are presented as such,
fiction, and cannot therefore be called lies
but the danger is that these accounts, which reach a vast
wide audience, will become accepted as the real thing.
It is always a question of trust; who or
what can you trust. Once it was simple, religion provided
almost everyone with answers and people by in large believed
these answers, even if they did not fully understand them.
The code of morals and values which religion provided showed
how to live by informing and moulding the consciences’ of
the masses. But as religion began to loose its all-powerful
guiding force it became less clear, who or what one could
trust and which values were ‘right.’ At present it could
be seen these dilemmas have become even more perplexing,
most notably due to the influence of the mass media. However,
while one might hypothesise as to whether the world has
become a more dishonest place, it must be remembered that
people have always lied and
people have always been lied
to. Some tells us it is natural; it has always and will
always be that way. It is difficult not to ask what this
world would be like without lies,
would it be a painfully dull and unemotional place or would
it be the ultimate utopian society? We more than likely
will never answer this question.
“You see, a person I knew used to divide
human beings into three categories: those who prefer having
nothing to hide rather than being obliged to lie,
those who prefer lying to having nothing to hide, and finally
those who like both lying and the hidden. I’ll let you choose
which case suits me best.
But what do I care? Don’t lies
eventually lead to the truth.”
"Lies",
will be the introduction to Mr. Roger Fides next book

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Link: Decay
of the Art of Lying (article) , What
is a lie? (forum)
Related Reading: How
to Lie with Maps (book)
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